IT ENDS WITH US – Review

It’s only been a couple of weeks since the Summer’s biggest box office smash, y’know those two “fightin’ friends” from the MCU, so it feels a bit odd that a very serious “issue” drama based on a best seller is dropping into the multiplexes. Really, shouldn’t this be an “awards contender” for the much cooler Fall months? Well, literary adaptations other than the “YA” franchises do often get a Summertime release (two years ago WHERE THE CRAWDADS SING arrived that July). And this film does star the wife of one of the aforementioned Marvel spandex-wearing icons. Can she lure away some of the Summer cinema crowds as the novel’s heroine who declares (yes, she actually “drops” the tile in the “third act”) IT ENDS WITH US?

Oh, the actress mentioned above is Blake Lively, who plays the story’s “main focus”, thirty-something Lily Bloom. We first encounter her as she drives back into her family’s lush suburban neighborhood and is greeted at the front door of her two-story childhood home by her teary mother Jenny (Amy Morton). Sure, she’s happy to see Lily, but the reunion happens because of the death of the patriarch Andrew (Kevin McKidd). A visit to her old bedroom evokes many memories, some nice and some not-so-nice. Her nostalgia is interrupted by Jenny who reminds Lily that she will be a speaker at the memorial service (“Just say five good things about him”). Ultimately Lily is unable to come up with anything and marches out of the church as a shocked Jenny looks on. Then Lily returns to Boston and decides to reflect while sitting on the ledge of the top-floor terrace of a downtown apartment highrise. That’s where she meets one of its residents, smoldering (along with tall, dark, and handsome) neurosurgeon Ryle Kincaid (Justin Baldoni). The two flirt and even share some “naked truths” with Lily offering up the biggest stunner. She lost her virginity in high school to a boy who turned out to be homeless. It’s then that the hospital calls him and they go their separate ways. For Lily, she’s rented out some retail space and is turning it into a “high-end” flower shop. During her downtime, Lily recalls that long-ago secret romance with the mysterious loner Atlas (Alex Neustaedter). Her thoughts are interrupted by a quirky local named Allysa (Jenny Slate) who wants to be the store’s first staffer. After the place is open to the public they get their first customers, Allysa’s zany investor hubby Marshall (Hasan Minhaj) and Allysa’s brother…Ryle! Small world! The big romance truly begins, but his darker side emerges soon after they frequent the “hot” new trendy restaurant “Root” which is owned and managed by the now adult chef Atlas Corrigan (Brandon Sklenar). Will the man from her past open her eyes to the warning signs coming from Lily’s current love?

This story’s stumbles are somewhat smoothed out by the confident bravada performance of Ms. Lively, doing some of her best work since that underrated gem A SIMPLE FAVOR. As Lily she projects a no-nonsense demeanor though seemingly aloof to her family tragedy, her eyes tell us that it was a troubled childhood. We see some of that melt away as she begins her relationship with Ryle, but the tough exterior holds as she is determined not to be a new “notch on his bedpost”. We see another side when she’s reunited with that lost first love, making way for her awakening to the dangerous path before her. Baldoni is all smooth silky charm as Ryle, somehow giving their “meet cute” a sultry edge. This gives even more power to the cruel twists in his behavior much later. Slate is the usual scene stealer as the story’s comic relief, doing a modern-age riff on the pampered rich diva who thinks the working class is a fun escape from the “high life” (think a younger Karen from “Will and Grace”). Minhaj is her perfect match as the energetic “money mover” hubby Marshall. Sklenar is effective as the somber, often stoic but empathetic first love Atlas (something in that name) who tries to hide the feelings that Lily has rekindled. Unfortunately, there’s little resemblance to his teenage version played with a defiant dignity by Nuestaedter. On the other hand, Lively’s teen version really works thanks to the splendid casting and dramatic chops of Isabela Ferrer who perfectly captures the euphoria of a first infatuation.

I was surprised to see that the director/producer of the film is the male lead Baldoni, which is some impressive “heavy lifting”. Interestingly his last feature was another literary adaptation from five years ago, FIVE FEET APART. He never lets the pacing sag, even as he indulges in several cliche romantic montages (“boozin’ and bowling”) and veers into the area of “Nancy Meyers lifestyle porn” as we take in Ryle’s “ready for the magazine layout cover shoot” digs. This makes the shift in tone, into a domestic violence drama, so jarring. Yes, it’s an important topic, but so much is hidden from us (Lily even refers to herself as an “unreliable narrator”) that it deflects the message, Plus there are so many wild “callbacks” and coincidences. And like most “rom-coms” a major conflict could be quelled with just a few words (Lly is reduced to chanting a mantra of “Baby…baby…”). There’s an opportunity to explore the motivations of the abuser, but one character provides an explanation that’s too simplistic, reminding me of the Simon Oakland denouncement in the last minutes of the original PSYCHO. Then the final act tosses another element in that isn’t really explored in order to provide an inspiring final fade-out. Maybe Christy Hall’s screenplay from Colleen Hoover’s best-seller needed another “pass” or two. Perhaps fans of the book will enjoy the movie “spin”, but unaware moviegoers may think they’ve entered a high gloss basic cable TV “message movie” with the unwieldy histrionics of IT ENDS WITH US.


2 Out of 4

IT ENDS WITH US is now playing in theatres everywhere

SHAYDA – Review

Zar Amir Ebrahimi as Shayda and and Selina Zahednia as Mona in SHAYDA Photo credit: Jane Zhang. Courtesy of Sony Pictures Classics.

Shayda (Zar Amir Ebrahimi) flees her abusive husband in Iran, along with her six-year-old daughter Mona (Selina Zahednia), and goes into hiding at an international women’s shelter in Australia, in the moving, semi-autobiographical Australian drama SHAYDA.

Set in the 1990s, SHAYDA is partly based on writer/director Noora Niasari’s own childhood experiences, when her mother fled Iran. Zar Amir Ebrahimi gives a charismatic, emotionally moving performance as Shayda, in a touching, emotionally-powerful drama that follows the mother’s and daughter’s journey. Young Selina Zahednia is a charmer as cute, mischievous Mona, effectively portraying her growth in understanding and maturity as they stay in the shelter. The drama premiered at Sundance in 2023, where it won the Audience Award in the World Cinema Dramatic competition, and it was Australia’s official entry for the Oscars.

We first meet the mother and daughter in the airport, where someone from the international women’s shelter is coaching little Mona on what to do if someone tries to lure her on to a plane to return to Iran. It is a chilling introduction to the precarious situation that Mona and her mother Shayda are now in, as Shayda escapes her husband who beat her and has become increasingly oppressive and brutal.

Shayda chose to flee to Australia because she and her husband had attended college there, until the Iranian government pulled her scholarship. Kindly social worker Joyce (Leah Purcell) runs the international women’s shelter where the mother and daughter go to hide, along with other women, mostly from an array of other nations. Secrecy is essential, as the men the women have fled have been known to either try to kidnap their children or attack the women. The secrecy extends to anyone the women may know, as they never know who may give away the location, intentionally or not, which would endanger all the women.

While in hiding in Australia, Shayda starts the process to get a divorce from her husband Hossein (Osamah Sami), which is no simple thing. Meanwhile, she tries to help her young daughter, who is struggling to adjust to life in the shelter. Homesick young Mona doesn’t understand why they can’t just go home, although the six-year-old does have some understanding that daddy hurt mommy. Mona longs to return to her own house in Iran, her own room and a yard to play in, instead of the cramped shelter where she shares a single room with her mother. Shayda tries to cheer her up, encouraging the little girl’s imaginative drawings, or entertaining her by singing or dancing with her to an exercise program on TV.

While Joyce, the woman who runs the shelter, is kind, not all the other women there are friendly, and Shayda does encounter some racism. The situation becomes more tense when Shayda’s husband Hossein follows them to Australia, and even gets the Australian authorities to grant him some visitation rights with his daughter, which forces Shayda to come up with a way to comply while keeping their location secret.

As the Persian New Year approaches, Shayda hears about a celebration planned by other Iranians nearby, and Mona begs to go. Shayda has to weigh the risk against homesick Mona’s emotional well-being.

Writer/director Noora Niasari does a fine job depicting the tight-rope that Shayda must walk to both care for her daughter and keep them both safe from her estranged abusive husband.

Zar Amir Ebrahimi is impressive as Shayda, and really carries the film on the strength of her appealing, nuanced performance. Osamah Sami does a nice job as husband Hossein, turning on the charm with his estranged wife and promising to change, but also pumping his daughter for information while trying to spoil her to win her affection. Young Selina Zahednia effectively portrays a girl who feels conflicted and caught between her parents.

The film is shot with a pared-down realism appropriate for the drama story. Flashes of color and energy come from little Mona’s artwork, and in the festivities and preparations around the Persian New Year, a celebration of renewal and new beginnings that mirrors the changing lives of mother and daughter.

SHAYDA is a touching drama about a mother and daughter journeying to freedom and a new life in a new land, anchored by an appealing, layered performance by Zar Amir Ebrahimi as the lead character.

SHAYDA, in English and Persian with English subtitles, opens Friday, Mar. 22, in theaters.

RATING: 3 out of 4 stars